Following are tips to help your children adjust before, during and after a move:
* Tell your kids about the move as soon as possible. Experts say it’s best to tell children as soon as possible to give them time to get used to the idea of moving.
* Be available to answer their questions regarding the move. What they ask will give you an idea of how they’re feeling about the move, whether they’re excited or nervous.
* Maintain a positive attitude about the move. Your attitude will influence your children. Be enthusiastic and positive.
* Include the children in planning for the move by taking them to look at houses with you or having them help with packing. Let them know how helpful they are.
* Help your child learn about the new area.
* Play with dolls, boxes and a wagon with your child to help them understand the concept of moving.
* Let the children decide how their new rooms are to be arranged and decorated.
* Encourage children to exchange addresses and phone numbers with their friends.
* Prepare a package for each child containing snacks, clothing and a few favorite toys for the move.
* Take a "family break" as soon as the major unpacking is done. Don't try to do everything when you arrive.
* Follow progress in new schools. Accompanying your child to school the first few days may ease tension.
* Spend time after the move listening to each child about new schools and new friends.
* Report any lingering abnormalities, such as a loss of appetite, insomnia, constipation or diarrhea to your pediatrician.
* Educate your child about any new situations they may face if moving to a different environment, such as moving from a rural area to a suburban area or from a suburban area to a city.
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